Okay fellahs, how long would you go without getting any from your wife or girlfriend and say this is it we need to part our seperate ways? I say 6 months without getting any i'm pretty much threw. I am not the cheating type so before i would go there i would end my marriage.
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Man 6 months is a long time. After my wife had our first child the wait in between was driving me crazy! The second and last child I had to stay away from stiff breezes (no pun intended) Back in the day, Bay Watch was hot and after the opening credits I had to change the channel!
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Yeah 6 months is a red flag that theres an underlying problem there. I would try everything possible to get to the root of the problem before I contemplated divorce though. But, of course, it takes two willing people to make something work and no amount of counseling is going to fix that.
Good luck with that situation. I sure hope everything works out for you.
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No! It's not my problem yetOriginally Posted by Skinsman 68
. I just wanted to know from you guys who have been in a relationship for awhile how you felt about that. I know alot of men come into the notion that you will get alot of sex from a marriage but it's a lie
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When I'm with someone, I need it 2-3 times a week.
Needing and getting are two entirely different things.
I think it depends on the woman. Some women just don't need it that often. My wife is this way. It puts a strain on the relationship, but you gotta look at it from both sides. Every guy wants it all the time. You gotta learn to compremise. You gotta do things she wants to get to the things you want.
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I agree that not getting it often is a sign of an underlying problem and THAT is what needs to be address--not the frequency of sex.
Luckily I don't have that problem.
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I think this is only a problem when you have a relationship that was built on sex but not real love or friendship. Relationships that are built around one's physical needs are sure to hit Divorce Court eventually.
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i think 6 months is way too long and shows a complete lack of intimacy in the marriage.
i know i wouldn't stand for it, i wouldn't stand for 2 weeks never mind 6 months.
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Yea I think those of us that have been in relationships where it's been less than once a week can look back and say "yea that relationship was on the rocks for awhile." I'm averaging once a day. And we don't even see each other everyday. You do the math.
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early in my marriage (been married for 7years now together for 8), for a month's time, the only time we "united" was once in that 30 day period.
That prompted me to leave for an evening. The next morning, we got together and talked in which time my wife informed me that she hadn't realized how important it was to me. It just wasn't that big a deal with her.
So, she would just let me do what I needed to do to fulfill my needs. (Now maybe I'm in the minority on this point) I told her that if she's not "into" it then it's not nearly as enjoyable as it could be for me.
If I wanted her to just lie there and not participate, I could find more "enjoyable" ways of (to quote the song), releasing some pressure.
Now, she tries to be into it at least once a week where it's really good. But like the previous poster said before, I've come to understand that it's a two way street and I've also got to do my part (romance her) to make sure she's in the mood...
It's easy when you're not married and the weight of kids and life weigh you down and kill the mood. When she gives birth, you'd best believe you aint gonna get it everyday (just because her body needs to heal at least 6 weeks is recommended).
When we were just dating and engaged, I too got it everyday. Until I got married (I was deceived, sniff...lol...). .
Bottom line - communication is the key
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I've been with my wife for 16 Years (6 years of marriage). The theory that women don't crave It as much as men, Is complete and utter BS. If anything Women are hornier then men. The only difference Is that we are not very good at hiding It...They (women) are. The most I've spent without having sex Is 2 weeks, and that's because we were pissed off at each other. 6months Is a pretty long time and I for one would not put up with It, unless wifey Is sick or she has some other problems like family issues that are too emotional for her to even think of sex. If she doesn't even bother to talk about sex or even want to have sex with you for 6 Mths. I would definately have a sitdown with her and try to talk about what the problem Is. I understand that sex Is not all there Is to a relationship, but It's a very important part that you need. If you're more gangsta, just wait till she's asleep and rub one off on her back. When she wakes up to your seeds on her back. Just go back to sleep and pretend like you don't know anything.
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let her know Rents due a least once o month, but you will let her split those payment up. ha ha (ps don't make me go find a new tenant!!
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